• Friday, September 18th, 2009
Please wait for “Whistle While You Work” to come across your computer speakers.
We interrupted our tour through the US on September 5th to celebrate a milestone in our lives. My husband, James L. Spangler, on September 5th, 1989 began working for a company named Computer Language Research which was based in Carrollton, Texas. The company has been bought out twice but my husband has remained in employment there for these past twenty years.
In honor of his faithfulness to his employer and to us, we planned a special meal for him. My children, all seven of them, wrote him letters to tell him how much they appreciate him and how much his diligence and longevity and consistency benefit us. I helped the younger two write theirs, but the others I did not and neither have I seen the contents of those special love letters to Daddy since they have been opened. They are special and private.
For weeks I thought about what would be the best meal to make for James. We eat a particular diet (except for the Eat Your Way thing) but I thought for a 20th Anniversary we could surely break that diet and make his very favorites. Roast beef came to mind … with mashed potatoes and peas. I wanted to throw in some shrimp scampi too. All easy things to make. The one that had me stuck was popovers. James loves popovers but I don’t make them well.
Often my husband likes to grocery shop with me or our daughters so while in the store I casually asked him about popovers. He said he loves them, but not as much as Yorkshire Pudding. Now that is popovers made in beef broth or drippings. I asked if he would tell me how to make them. He said I never could learn. I gave him a funny look and he asked why did I have to learn.
And so the story goes that he found out about the anniversary celebration. He thought the celebration was ridiculous, but the meal sounded great. In fact, he told me that his mother was Queen when she made roast beef and mashed potatoes.
So here is the anniversary meal which I did not make, but James did. He had such a grand time doing this that it cracked me up. I got such a hoot out of it. He chose a different shrimp recipe … one that came from our honeymoon in Vermont. And yes, he made the Yorkshire Pudding.

He did not get away with doing it all. The children had made his favorite cookie – a recipe from Consumer Reports back in the 80s called The Perfect Chocolate Chip Cookie. And several of us girls produced his favorite : banana cream pie all from scratch.

During desert I asked my husband to give the history of his employment and we recounted God’s faithfulness to us. There were at least three times that James was up for a promotion and even the bosses said he should have it, but it went to another. Not long after that the position of promotion was eliminated. So James’ job has been protected through those times, through the company buy-outs, and through other trials. He also did not take a job with a company in Houston back in 1988 although they wanted him. That firm went out of business due to a scandel and it would have been in the very division that James would have worked. God’s Hand has been guiding and directing even when we have not been able to immediately see it.
When Karen was a little girl I asked her if she knew why Daddy went to work every day. She confidently responded, “To buy me chips.” (As in potato chips.) That has been a standing joke in our home now for 20 years.
When I think of the all of the men in the world who do not provide for their families, it really hits home to me how much my husband does to take care of me and my children. And when I look back several generations in my family and in James’ family, we have had men who faithfully took on the tasks of daily work and earning daily bread. They did not shirk from their calling as Provider. Thank you Lord for this heritage.
Thank you James for providing for me and seven younguns for all of these years. There is no value that can be placed upon the daily sacrifice you make for us.